Wednesday, July 16, 2008

feelings:happy/sad

to me, there r only two types of feelings one can have n nothing in between. either we r down or we r on cloud 9, there's nthing in between. there's no such thing as hvng the highest joy. every joy will be overcome by the subsequent joy later in life. for instance, we may feel happy when we pass UPSR with flying colours n at that time, it is our greatest joy. however, as time passes n then we manage to pass with A's in SPM, this joy will surpass the previous "greatest" joy. i know, i'm crapping. anyway, what i'm trying to say is that there's no such thing as hving the greatest joy. we feel happy when:
1. we get everything, though it's impossible
2. we feel appreciated, though appreciation often are insincere
3. we feel loved, though the only people who truly love us are our parents
4. we learn something, though we never think of sharing the knowledge to otherss
5. we have something which others lack
on the other hand, sadness is kinda....gloomy n it will stick to u for a longer time. joy is temporary, while sadness, to me is kinda.....it takes a long time to stop being sad. actually, there's not a single moment in our life where we don't feel sad. we feel sad when we obtain good results while our best friend don't do the same. we feel sad when we win a tournament, bt not our team. we feel sad when we spend time with our family, bt our friends r neglected. every joy is followed closely by sadness, therefore there's no such thing as "oh, i am not sad at all"...anyway, we feel sad when:
1. we are betrayed, esp by pplz whom we really care about
2. the person whom we love don't love us, n that does not exclude our family members
3. we don't achieve what we want, although those dreams r sometimes too high
4. we FEEL that we r alone
5. we fail in everything that we do
i dnt know what i'm mumbling about, as usual...take care, God bless...elmo out~!

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